I searched diligently for a pronoun so I could properly reference this incredible director - and because I know from experience that “Sam” is already a name of many genders. I first found Sam’s credit as the creator and director of Disclosure, a documentary on which PFLAG partnered, about trans representation in film. nurturer, host).Īs an example for how to talk about a person who doesn’t use pronouns, let’s look at Sam Feder. friend, colleague), about the person professionally, (ex. These can describe the relationship between you and the person who uses no pronouns, (ex. ![]() Come up with a few other descriptors for the person. We use pronouns so frequently that we often don’t realize our usage until we stop using them altogether. To start, it may feel like you’re saying the person’s name a lot. ![]() Using no pronouns is a simple adjustment that can have a great impact on a person’s sense of validity within their gender. In any scenario, whether temporary or permanent, it’s important to respect this person’s lack of pronouns. There might be pronouns that fit but are not in common use, and explaining them feels exhausting. The person might be figuring out what pronouns to use in the future and may not want to use any in the meantime. There may not be a set of pronouns that feels right for that individual. It may take some getting used to, but when you can make a small adjustment, you can make a big difference.Ī person may refrain from using pronouns for many reasons. So, when a person asks not to be referred to using any pronouns, it may seem like an impossible task. Pronouns are everywhere, and we often don’t realize we’re using them. What do you do when someone doesn’t use any pronouns? In this series beginning on Nonbinary Day, Sam shares tips for honoring loved ones who don’t use pronouns. ![]() Elevating the voices and experiences of transgender and nonbinary people is a passion of PFLAG National intern Sam Krauss (they/them), a government and sociology double major going into their senior year at Smith College, who comes from Abington, Pennsylvania.
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